The Adoption Option

My spot for thoughts, feelings, rambles, and updates as we journey through the adoption process. Highlights: Dossier arrived in Thailand ~ Sept 26, 2005; Approved ~ October, 2005; Matched ~ August, 2006; Referral received ~ January 2007; Traveled & Home ~ June, 2007; Finalized!! ~ December, 2007

Saturday, June 09, 2007

A major breakthough

Well today was a great day. We started out with the typical snuggly behavior just bonding and hanging out around the hotel. We took a mini adventure to get Jesse's visa pictures taken and ate some lunch out. We tried and tried to find someplace that looked clean and good but in that section of the street, where we were, there were mostly chain restaurants from the states...so we ended up in a store claiming to be a New York Deli. Not exactly what you'd find in New York, I have a feeling. But my lox and cream cheese bagel was good and Jesse enjoyed his chicken breast and some wheat toast. Sam's was a weird sandwich claiming to be BBQ Chicken.


Anyway - after that we headed back to the hotel for a nap. Jesse ended up napping mostly on the bed with us because when we tried to move him he cried. His cries are so cute and pathetic. His arms go out like a baby monkey and these big crocodile tears come down his face before any sound comes out. Then these little moans escape his mouth and it's just too much to handle...of course we have been giving in to the crying and picking him up as part of the bonding process. It must have worked because after his nap he awoke into a new personality. We were sitting on the bed playing with his toys and all of a sudden there were smiles and giggles coming from everywhere. So many smiles and him trying to make us laugh and knowing his was being silly (like by putting the bottom of the sippy cup in his mouth instead of the top). It was so great. Here's a great picture that shows of his teeth, too. Then I turned on the TV to watch the security channel (it shows a perfect shot of the lobby and the restaurant to see if it was open for dinner) and there was platform diving on. Jesse went crazy pointing to the TV and making noises and trying to talk. (He's seen the TV before too, so it was something different this time to trigger it) Once he started he wouldn't stop!!!!!! So much babblings and pointing, it was great. (we have video but Sam's having trouble loading it)

The test was taking him down to dinner - to see if he became all shy and limp again - and really not so much. He's definitely a little stranger leery and clung to us but he sat in his seat and ate his noodle soup and some rice. It was a really great turn in the road and we'll see if it continues tomorrow. We also gave him a quick mini bath to get him used to the idea - I don't think he's used to sitting in bath tubs.

It's getting late and I have some more minor details I want to write about, but I think they can wait until morning.

9 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

wowoowowow i am so behind the times, my computer where i had saved the link to your blog was in the fix it shop, and i just got back on line to catch up on blogging news and wowowowowow you finally have your child in your arms, seems like a moment in time since I read about you getting a haircut ready for the trip, the warmest wishes to the 3 of you. Gem xxx

6/09/2007 8:45 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The image of Jesse babbling, laughing and pointing at the tv is just too much. Between that and him clinging to you at dinner... well, that just brought tears to my eyes. I just knew that there'd be a moment when it just clicked for you all and the bond would be there.
- Maria

6/09/2007 8:58 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

It is great to see Jesse adjusting sooo fast. His smile is so big. How many teeth? I assume he is walking. Printed this blog for Mom to read.

We can not wait to hold Jesse.

Love

Dad

6/09/2007 10:50 AM  
Blogger April said...

Yeah!!! for break throughs! So glad to see him smiling-such a handsome guy!
April

6/09/2007 11:19 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

It's great to see the smiles and to hear that things are going well!
Wendy :)

6/09/2007 12:25 PM  
Blogger Serena said...

He's so cute!!! Congratulations Momma and Daddy!

Serena

6/09/2007 2:29 PM  
Blogger Glen and Andrea said...

What a wonderful experience for all three of you. He looks very happy in the photo. What a sweetheart. I'm so grateful that we can follow along on this journey that we will soon be experiencing too. Thanks so much for the daily blogs!

6/09/2007 4:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am so happy for the three of you, I think of you often and read everyday. Once you are back and well adjusted we should get the boys together for a play date, they sound like they have many similarities!

~Bridget

6/09/2007 8:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

What a cute kid! Glad all is going OK. Hannah I hope you feel better soon. I'm sorry we didn't get our act together w/the package for Khun Voraporn. Lynn Smith tells me she's coming to the Seattle reunion so I guess we'll see her there at any rate.

Hope the rest of the trip goes very smoothly for all...

Julie H

6/11/2007 2:50 PM  

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